Author Michael Webb as featured in…
"Bring Back The FIRE Into your Love Life. In Fact, It's So Simple, It's Embarrassing!..."
In five minutes you can have any of these proven secrets working for you even if you're shy or embarrassed and even if you've tried everything but failed miserably…
You will learn:
- The biggest lovemaking mistakes
- How to invigorate each other to make love
- The best positions to make love
- Secrets to give each other more pleasure
- How to make sex more intmate and meaningful
- And much more...
Do you feel like the issues in your Love Life are preventing you from being happy? You’re not alone. Like you, I noticed that my spouse and I weren’t making love as often as we used to. And when we did make love, it just wasn’t the same.
In fact, I actually started loosing interest in making love, and – I HATE to admit this – I actually avoided making love a few times! It just wasn’t the same anymore and I knew I needed to fix this before it went to far.
One night, while my spouse was in the kitchen, I jumped online searching for ideas to fix our situation. That’s when I found a book called "500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets." I started reading and immediately wanted to try some of the ideas. Actually, this is funny, my wife came into the study to see what I was doing and, once she saw what I was reading, she practically kicked me off the computer to read it herself!
So in the end, did the book work?
You be the judge: The very next night, my wife brought a bowl of fresh strawberries and chocolate fondue to bed. (Obviously inspired from the book)
And I was totally surprised. I never would have thought that something as simple as eating fruit and chocolate during foreplay would make things so much more exciting.
I won't go into “details” about what happened after that… :D… but all I can say is, I'm a BIG fan of this book!
And our lovemaking is great now. We're never short of ideas to make things exciting. If we ever need an idea, we just open up the book. It's great!
If you think your lovemaking has become a bit 'ordinary' or you just want to make it even better than it already is, you need to go ahead and buy this book!
When you hear the term "intimacy issues" what is the first thought that pops into your mind? Wouldn't it most likely be some sort of physical impairment such as premature ejaculation for a man or perhaps being non-orgasmic for a woman? Why are there so many articles written from a strictly physiological perspective as if all solutions to "intimacy issues" singularly address the physical aspect of intimacy rather than the most fundamental criteria of any intimate relationship, the emotional foundation. Many times good, strong, and healthy relationships may initially begin physiologically through shared physical attraction between two people. However, the relationships that withstand the test of time and the ups and downs of life do so by having a solid emotional foundation at its core.
From the onset of any relationship, the emotional foundation is continually growing, adapting, changing and must remain vibrant to support the health of the relationship. What does this look like? Listed below are just a few of the most important characteristics of a healthy, intimate relationship:
Trust - the backbone of the relationship - safety and security.Trust is the bedrock of an intimate relationship. We develop trust through the honesty and reliability of our mate's words and actions, depending on what they say and what they do. Trust must be reciprocal in order for the relationship to grow and mature, developing and strengthening through the passage of time. As we begin to believe in our mate's reliability and the safety that brings into the relationship, we will begin to share our own inner most thoughts and feelings.
Mutual respect - being validated. There's nothing worse than being in a relationship of any kind if mutual respect is nonexistent. Along with trust, mutual respect must be present relaying an atmosphere of acceptance, courtesy and listening.
Active listening - being valued and understood. What does active listening look like? When one is actively listening to their mate, they are making eye contact and remaining quiet while taking in all that is being said without making any comments or interrupting the other.
Empathy/Compassion - feelings focused on others/selflessness. Each partner in a relationship must be able to take into consideration the others needs and feelings, often times more than their own. One must be able to, at times, sacrifice their needs when the situation warrants a greater outcome.
Unconditional acceptance - complete acceptance of self/mate (flaws included). This characteristic begins with yourself. When you yourself can love and accept all of your own varied strengths, weaknesses and flaws then the stage is set for each partner in the relationship to do the same.
Commitment - stability and loyalty. Commitment is one characteristic that is truly revealed through the passage of time. It enriches the relationship and deepens the meaning and love as a couple goes through the joys and struggles of the relationship.
As any of these 6 attributes could be discussed at length, if one or more is weak or lacking it can dangerously affect the relationship as a whole. The weak or dysfunctional characteristic will inevitably affect the sexual intimacy of the relationship. Sexual intimacy is fulfilled by first satisfying ones emotional needs as it is the precursor to sexual intimacy. To learn more, click the link below:
